As you can tell it had been a while since I blogged and for my followers, I'm so sorry for keeping you waiting...lol. My post prior to this one, was me just having to get some things off my chest, but so you all know exactly where this is coming from, let me bring you up to speed.
So I get a text one morning from someone saying and I quote "Da Dream I had about you last night, if it could come true, would be having you for breakfast right now". Hmmmmmmmm, my first thought was "really dude", my next thought was "straight disrespectful and shell". Now do not think I entertained this foolishness because I didn't. I simply typed "you shell" and that was all I had to say. Now maybe I should have said, chill out with that, or something else, but being that I take him for a pure joke anyway, and have no feelings at all for this person, I didn't even bother to waste time with more words. Later on he sends me another text, this time talking about somebody talking behind his back, hood mess, blah blah blah blah. I would comment here and there, but nothing to write home about.
So here is a little background on the situation, the negro that sent me this text message is somebody that I grew up with or should say that WE grew up with. To be honest he is the reason that Ray and I are together in a way. That's what makes it weird right. I mean he didn't hook us up or anything, but he was the one that asked me when was the last time I had talk to Ray and that I needed to reach out to him, which I did and it has been history since then. So anyway back to the situation at hand, so this dude has thrown in a couple shots here and there, but I take nothing serious with him, because he'll then turn right around and say, nah, I'm just playing; I love you more as a friend, like my best friend, blah blah blah. Side note, I swear I got the most best friends in the world...LOL
So any who, I felt that I owed it to Ray to let him know what was said that day, I don't know why I decided to tell him, but I normally do communicate with him any time that I have spoken with this person and what he's talking about. So this time, it really really didn't sit well with Ray. So I said to him, hey if you want me to stop communicating with him, then just let me know. Now granted, he shouldn't have to tell me not to stop communicating with someone that is disrespecting him, but I did let him know that his statement was disrespectful to Ray. He really didn't have much to say, other than it's nothing he can do about it right now, and I told him I would handle it, and my reason for saying that is because in the pass there has been a couple chicks that have disrespected me and he's asked me to allow him to handle it, and that's just what I do. So I figured I could do the same thing, but deep down inside knowing he's a man and me saying to let me handle it went in one ear and out the other...LOL
Clearly I was right because as I'm sitting in my mother's living room I received a call from "him" and it didn't dawn on me that maybe Ray hit him up, I was thinking, he must have seen my car in mom's driveway so he's calling to see what's up or how I'm doing, or how long I'm home. NOPE, that was not the case, instead I get this "man, what's up!" me: Nothing at my mom's talking, what's up. him: "what's up!", so by now I have an attitude (yes just that quick, don't ask me the same question twice when you could have easily answered the question the first time). So then I'm told that Ray had called and pretty much asked him why he's trying to get at his girl. WOW!!! So sit on the phone like "OKAY AND", so then he goes into trying to explain to Ray that it was nothing like this and blah blah blah. And then goes into explaining something that Ray didn't even know about , which was that he was going to come to Charlotte (he and some chick he mess with) and asked if I would come out there and meet up with them and I told him no. So then he said since I wasn't going to come, then he wasn't going to come down. I hadn't even talk to Ray to inform him of that anyway, so you can tell when a negro is nervous they start spilling their guts!!!!
I mean I really didn't have anything else to say, I mean at that point I knew it was no need to speak with him anymore and that this had gone to another level. It's nothing for me to stop talking to him, I mean we cool, but he's a joke to me. I'm the same with him, as I am with any of my friends, which is real and blunt and give my opinion and advice if I'm asked. He comes to me regarding personal issues with his wife, girlfriend, etc. So again, it's nothing between the two of us, we talk sometimes a couple times a week or we can go months without a word and then I may get a "how u" text, like I said nothing major at all.
So here is where the letter is coming from, apparently after discussed this over the phone the first night, he let some things out on paper, in mind I have a feeling of what it comes down to , which is why was I even talking to him anyway. Which is fine, I will take that, as long as he's ready for my response. It's nothing for me cut a person loose, but now that the shoe is on the other foot, I will pose the question right back to him "why did you still continue to communicate with the chick(S), after they disrespected me? So if he's ready, I'm ready.....in my Pastor Troy voice 'WE READY, WE READY, WE READY"..wait is that a Pastor Troy song??????...LOL, yeh that's how little I know about rap....lol
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